09.20.09
M Butterfly
After a couple of crappy French movies, which start uneventfully,develop all over the places, and end irrelevantly with a big “FIN” on the screen, (Frankly during one of which I actually asked Gordo–Do you think the subtitle belongs to this movie?), we finally came across a good movie–M. Butterfly.
I have never seen the Opera but now that I get the story, I’d love to have the chance. I won’t have to worry about figuring what’s going on, just listen to the music and feel the emotion in it and let imagination run wild…I doubt how many people understand Opera lyrics anyway?
Here’s the story of the movie:
A French diplomat was assigned to Beijing, China in the 1960s. He becomes infatuated with a Chinese opera performer, Song , who spies on him for government information under orders from the Chinese government. Their affair lasts for twenty years, with Gallimard all the while apparently unaware (or willfully ignorant) of the fact that in traditional Chinese opera, all roles are performed by men. Eventually, Gallimard betrays his country and is tried for treason, which forces him to face the truth about his relationship. Faced with the unbearable truth that his lover is actually male, he himself takes on the role of Butterfly, the woman who died for the sake of an illusory love.
When Gallimard met Butterfly for the first time in the theater after her performance, he complimented her and said it was a convincing show and it was beautiful, to which Butterfly answered:”What would you say if a blond cheerleader fell in love with a short Japanese businessman. He marries her and then goes home for 3 years, during which time she prays to his pic and turns down marriage from a young Kennedy. Then when she learns her husband has remarried, she kills herself. Now I believe you would consider this girl to be a deranged idiot, correct? But because it’s an Oriental who kills herself for a Westerner, you find her beautiful.”
Gillimard had to say:”Yes.
But then he tried to explain–:”You made me see the beauty of the story, of her death. It’s pure sacrifice.”
Butterfly:”Well yes, to a Westerner. It’s one of your favorite fantasies, isn’t it? The submissive Oriental woman and the cruel white man.”
I was thinking–”Wow, it hurts.”
I believe the seduction has already begun at this moment–because when it hurts, one remembers.
And the movie just become interesting right at the beginning.
Butterfly:”In order to better serve the great proletarian state, I practice my deception as often as possible. I am trying my best to become somebody else.”
I believe he had become somebody else in the end, except what Gallimard loved was the perfect lie. He doesn’t want to know the truth. He said:”I am a man who loved a woman created by a man. Anything else simply fell short.”
He killed himself and became the western version of Butterfly.
I couldn’t believe that this affair last for 20 years. Fake intimacies, fake pregnancy, even a fake child. I kept asking–And this is based on a true story?
And in the end, I suddenly realize, self-deception is the blindest of all the blinds.
Butterfly:”Do you know why most female roles are played by men in Chinese Opera?–Because only a man knows how a woman should act.”

Edih said,
September 21, 2009 at 8:03 am
aleluiah! The Chinese woman realized that the Americans and French do not perceive value in other people, especially women, they think all people are inferior, obedient to death by her American superhero.
John said,
September 24, 2009 at 6:01 pm
Hmmm…. I think Edih has a few issues that need working on.
I really liked this story. You are right when you say that the Frenchmen let himself be deceived. But the Chinese actor must have been incredible to keep up the illusion for so long.
And for the record, anyone who takes the time to date a Chinese woman for more than 5 minutes knows the the whole subservient love slave thing is a laughable myth.
Tammy said,
September 24, 2009 at 11:47 pm
When Song said she’s pregnant and Gallimard bought it, the only explanation viable is self-deception. No woman is that good! No man is that dumb!
Thing is, Song fell for his own lie too. I thought he was in love in the end…
hehe John I know who’s the boss in your house then.
I agree, you hardly find any submissive Chinese woman now. Even if it looks so, it’s submissive-aggressive. It’s a trick, watch out.:)